“THINK before you SPEAK”

Proverbs 17:28   Even fools are thought wise if they keep silent, and discerning if they hold their tongues.”

When in a deep conversation, be careful about your responses as they may not come out right depending on your tone.  Always make sure your tone and the way you say something is on point as you not coming off arrogant or with an attitude.

As the other person or persons are speaking, formulate in your mind your response so that when you decide to speak your communicate is the way you want it to be.  Don’t ever let anyone take you out of your zone. Effective communication is the key to all things so therefore we should be mindful of what we say in all situations before we speak.

Remember once you say something, you cannot take it back, be mindful of that.  The words you may speak will affect the other person one way or another so choose your words and the way you speak those words carefully.

If you think negatively then you will speak negatively, however, if you speak positively, you will speak positively.

Philippians 4:4-8 “Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.  Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.”

James 3:9-12 “With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness.  Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be.   Can both fresh water and salt water flow from the same spring?  My brothers and sisters, can a fig tree bear olives, or a grapevine bear figs? Neither can a salt spring produce fresh water.”

Read the word, pray on the word, and meditate on the word daily.  GOD Bless You Much Love Pastor Clara L Peters

“Being Single and LOVING It”

Join me for the Month of November as I speak on being single and loving it.  Why would someone love it?  Because that is where God has you for this season so until he call you into then you should enjoy your relationship with him.  This is your time to get closer to him.

If you are married, yes join the call as well I would love to have you.


God Bless Each of You

Domestic Violence – Clara Peters


Join me on Monday, October 27th 8:00PM CST

It will be the last call for the month on Domestic Violence, however I will be speaking on it more often that just the month of October.

You can click the link to listen or you can dial in which you will have a chance to ask a question or make a comment at the end by pressing the the 1 key. I look forward to meeting you on the call. The call in number is 718-508-9987.

Join me each Monday night at 8:00 PM CST.


God Bless You Pastor Peters

I GOT FLOWERS TODAY by Unknown Author


I Got Flowers Today

I got flowers today. It wasn’t my birthday or any other special day. We had our first argument last night, And he said a lot of cruel things that really hurt me. I know he is sorry and didn’t mean the things he said. Because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today. It wasn’t our anniversary any other special day. Last night, he threw me into a wall and started to choke me. It seemed like a nightmare. I couldn’t believe it was real. I woke up this morning sore and bruised all over. I know he must be sorry. Because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today, and it wasn’t Mother’s Day or any other special day. Last night, he beat me up again. And it was much worse than all the other times. If I leave him, what will I do? How will I take care of my kids? What about money? I’m afraid of him and scared to leave. But I know he must be sorry. Because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today. Today was a very special day. It was the day of my funeral. Last night, he finally killed me. He beat me to death. If only I had gathered enough courage and strength to leave him, I would not have gotten flowers…today.

Author Unknown